In general, the way to identify whether a guy is not (and was not) that interested in you is based on the amount of effort he put in.
In fact, it’s more common than most people realize so don’t feel bad or that you are alone. However, what I find most often is that when a woman repeatedly suffers through men losing interest, it’s because she hasn’t discovered the little-known “gap” in men’s minds that cause them to lose interest in a woman and a relationship.
You probably initiated everything and pushed everything forward.
Now, there are many possibilities when it comes to the kind of situations women find themselves in when the man was never really that interested.
Click here to take our quick (and shockingly accurate) “Is He Losing Interest” Quiz right now and find out if he’s really losing interest in you… I am being very blunt with you in an effort to help you because I would rather you know the truth so you don’t have to suffer any longer. You have to ask yourself, would you characterize the relationship as a sex based relationship?
Like, maybe you go to lunch once in awhile and do some fun things together… In this kind of situation, for the most part, all the interactions, more or less, are a track to sex.